Then Guo Jingshun, the oldest member of the birthday party team, had this problem.
He said that Su Yonglin is in his twenties and still alone, with no family and no children. This is not good. Should we consider getting married?
Su Yonglin was shoveling rice to prepare for the meal and continued to be busy. The smell speech suddenly stopped chewing his mouth quickly.
"get married?"
"Well, you’re 21 years old when you get married in A Lang, so it’s time to consider a lifelong event, and this time it really scared me. You said that Sue’s family is an only child. What should we do if anything happens to you?"
Lao Guo looked at Su Yonglin with a bitter face. "It’s unlucky to say this, but don’t blame me for speaking straight, A Lang. I’m really afraid that we’re going to rebel. No one dares to say that they can live to the end, don’t you think?"
It is true that a group of close friends kept nodding their heads to agree with this.
Su Yonglin chewed the food in his mouth, swallowed it, put the bowl chopsticks, and seriously thought about it.
Actually, they are right.
Who can say that he will live to the end in an uncertain time?
Speaking of this era, even if they don’t rebel, even if they are born in a big family and have a good life, it is hard to say that they can go smoothly and benefit a generation without illness or disaster.
In the era when medical and health conditions were very underdeveloped, people really lived one day at a time.
At this time, children generally have no names before a certain age.
Have a nickname, no name, and no words.
The reason is very simple and cruel.
That is, the family is not sure whether the child will live to adulthood or seven old X.
Before he grows up to a certain age, his family is really not sure that he can live to be a child, and he will not be included in the genealogy without giving his nickname.
When he grows up to a certain age, it proves that he can live. Only then can he give his name, give his inscription and be included in the genealogy. As a member of the family, he enjoys the normal benefits of family adults.
In the era when diseases and plagues are rampant and medicines can be cured, people are really in a state of flux.
Whether you are a civilian or an emperor, is the virus familiar to you?
It is also because of this that the ancients said that many blessings led to desperate fertility.
They can’t guarantee that the children will live, and they will have to work hard to continue the incense. It is always a probability that one will live to continue the incense.
Su Yonglin, the only child, is really a high-risk group in the eyes of everyone.
And now everyone’s life and future well-being depend on him, but he hangs around all day, leaving no family and no descendants. This …
It’s irresponsible to look at it any way.
In case he dies one day, everyone wants to continue fighting and can’t find him, but the leader continues to be loyal to the object.
No one will rest assured until they have five or six or seven children.
Su Yonglin thought this way for a while and felt that the concerns of the Ministry were indeed understandable and indeed a problem, and it was still a problem that needed to be solved urgently.
More and more people need him to protect their own interests, no matter from what point of view, getting married is an important thing for Su Yonglin.
When he got married and gave birth, he said that he had perseverance in this rebellion and would stick to it all the time, which was also an important political statement.
It is difficult for a single man without family and children to be widely recognized by society in this era
It is difficult to identify with a man who has not married and given birth at the age of marriage and birth.
Not only that, Su Yonglin soon realized that the idea of announcing marriage in the current military situation was more of a test for his followers.
Su Yonglin nodded slowly after some thinking.
"It’s not that I don’t want to get married. I was too busy thinking about it before I was born, and I didn’t have time to think about it. Although I was interested, was there really a good family willing to marry my daughter before I defeated the golden army?"
Xin Qiji made a statement.
"If Su Shuai has really defeated the golden army and won the Central Plains, then who is better than Su Shuai’s family who is willing to marry her daughter at that time?"
Xin Qiji’s words are quite good. Su Haisheng and Han Jingxuan strongly praised them.
"Not the kui is a reader is talking"
"insightful! Hit the nail on the head! A Lang Youan said yes. Can you marry your daughter’s family at this time compare with that at that time? "
Su Haisheng and Han Jingxuan supported Xin Qiji’s view, and then others nodded and praised Xin Qiji for saying that Xin Qiji could speak and see things accurately.
Su Yonglin looked at Xin Qiji approvingly.
"Young Ann said makes sense, but speaking of which, my marriage should not only be my personal affair. What do you think? What kind of family is more suitable for me? "
Chapter 25 There are still too few people like you
Su Yonglin generously presented her marriage to everyone for discussion, which made everyone very happy.
The seats are all followed by Su Yonglin through life and death, and their feelings for each other are not to say that they are playing, and everyone is also unambiguous.
What is better to be beautiful and have a good figure?
What ass should be raised well?
What character should be gentle, virtuous and courteous?
What to know about caring for people and what to do for their husbands?
The debate was fierce, and the scene was once very hot.
Su Haisheng and Han Jingxuan had a heated argument about figure.
"What beautiful figure can be born if it is thin and thin?"
"Your ass is not equal to strong? The sturdy woman in our village is like a cow. The man in the family can’t speak and is often beaten. Everyone in the village laughs at him! "
"So what? Only when you are strong can you have children! Can a thin woman give birth to a child at first sight? "
"You are full of children, aren’t you? Didn’t you order anything else? "
"Don’t just get married and have children? What else? Nothing is empty if you can’t have children! It is a good chicken to be able to lay hens! "
"What chicken don’t chicken you treat people like chickens? Have you talked like that? Bah! "
The two men quarreled fiercely.
On the other hand, Wei Kexian returned from injury and Su Yong also had a heated debate on whether it is better for everyone to be a good family or to take care of others.